Over brunch, my new acquaintance and I discover we have a lot in common – both former teachers, interested in art and poetry, with a love birds. She is just getting back into life after a long stint of caring for a sick husband, who died a year ago. I am finding my footing in a new town, after years of my own isolation.
The friendship feels natural, and when we meet up again at the next poetry circle, we make more plans.
For most of my life, I have felt like the lone bird, perched below the gathered flock, wondering why I’m left out. A loner, is how I described myself in high school – a cover for shame and never feeling good enough.
I’m too old for all that self-deprecation nonsense now. I am an adult women who needs relationships.
So these days, I am letting my guard down, and giving thanks for the friends in my life – old and new.
Connection, after all, is what the heart craves.
Wonderful reflection – and I so agree, it’s the only way.
Re the photo – I see there’re no hangups on that wire 🙂
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Lol. No hangups! Thanks Paul.
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🙂
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Connections make life more meaningful, even virtual connections. You expressed what many of us feel in a lovely way. 💙
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Thanks!
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😉
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It IS all about the connections. I think aging amplifies the need. Craving is the perfect word.
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Yes, age does add to the need. Well said. Thanks.
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Welcome.
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Yup! Connections nurture. Glad I have one with you!
I resonate with your image metaphor for creating space, though … even in my senior years I need a certain amount of time on that lower wire, observing and digesting (and writing about!) what I observe, room to keep growing mixed with getting into the crowd and contributing to the flurries.
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I thought about you as I wrote this, Jazz. Even though we are miles apart, our connection means so much to me.
I know what you mean about needing to be apart also – it’s all about balance.
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You got it. Wish I lived closer. Brunch and birds sound GREAT to me!
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Wouldn’t that be awesome!
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YES!
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You said it all V.J.! Thank you! ❤
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Thank you, sweet friend.
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So glad to hear. Sometimes we are the presence other people seek in their lives but unable to articulate as well as you have.
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Thank you.
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You’re welcome.
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