I love our home. It’s the perfect size for the two of us plus our two doggies. We have all the amenities we need. The only thing that is missing, I confide to a friend, is nature.
For two years, we lived in our 41′ motor home, traversing North America and discovering many wondrous places. Nature was our focus. Prior to that, we lived in a small cottage in the city, with a double lot and large old trees that immersed us in a park-like setting. This current home, set between other similar houses, lacks the view.
Shortly after my confession, Ric came home from a meeting and told me that a house in our neighbourhood, backing onto the ravine and hiking trails, is for sale.
“Are you interested?”
Double doors off the dining area open to a large deck spanning the back of the house. The view is pure green – mature trees and shrubbery, with birdsong and wildlife, and not a house in sight. A sunroom, built on the side of the house, provides four season viewing.
What’s not to like?
The house needs work. It’s larger than our current home, which means more costly. Do we need the added expense just when it seems we were working out a manageable retirement budget?
Oh, but that view.
We’ve been waffling about it for the past few days.
Is this manna from heaven – an ask answered; or temptation that will just create more stress?
Decisions, decisions.
How do you decide when faced with difficult choices? What decisions are weighing at present? I look forward to where this prompt will lead you.
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Hopefully I’m in time to contribute. I am most grateful I don’t have to make the decision I wrote about in my post for your challenge.
http://oneletterup.com/2020/06/28/covid-push
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Thanks Andrea. I added you in!
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Great 🙂 I appreciate it.
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Wonderful words and photos.
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Hello VJ, Shifting to a comfort zone to what we desire is bit tough. We soon get used to new and feel comfortable soon. 🙂
Here is my entry for the prompt. https://shilpanairy.wordpress.com/2020/06/27/last-decision-fiction/
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Thanks Shilpa!
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Here is my entry:
https://mmastorytime.com/2020/06/25/flash-fiction-another-late-replacement/
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Pls check my post vj challenge
https://sanjunaa.wordpress.com/2020/06/24/mind-battle/
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Checked and welcome thanks.
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Thanks for joining in.
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Great ,I am now following and i wish to learn a lot. thank you. https://wordpress.com/home/mariadebosslady.wordpress.com
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Thank you.
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Good insight!
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Here’s my conscious decision – https://myheart2heart.blog/2020/06/23/strawberry-picking-it-is/
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Heavenly!
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Glad you liked it! Thank you 😊
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Welcome. Love strawberry season.
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I hope you will be at peace with whatever happens.
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Thanks Tanja. I think we will.
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Hi V.J. Hope you enjoy my decision to go with no decision. https://odaciuk.wordpress.com/2020/06/23/wave-of-nostalgia/
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Wonderful!
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Thank-you, V.J. ❤
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My pleasure!
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Nice Olga. Love the ending.
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Good luck in whatever decision you make! Here is my take – https://amanpan.blog/2020/06/23/home-sweet-home/
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Well done, Eugi!
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Thank you, VJ!
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You are welcome!
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https://pvcann.com/2020/06/23/to-dare-a-poem-by-paul-vincent-cannon/
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Hi V. J,
I can so well relate to the situation you are in.
Hope you have reached a decision on it.
Good luck:)
https://radhikasreflection.wordpress.com/2020/06/23/this-or-that/
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Thanks. The offer goes in today. That may decide all.
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Some decisions can’t be put off, but it often works.
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Decisions, decisions! Lots of pros and cons to consider, heart, or mind…but security, money, and how long one can manage also matters. Nicely written.
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Thanks Indira- no decision yet, although we are going to put in an offer. That could decide all.
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All the best. May, whatever you decide, benefits you.
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Thanks Indira.
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With the view you describe, I’d be sorely tempted–but then deterred by the house’s needing work. A tough one! My big decision is when I’m going to retire from working full-time. No decision as of yet.
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That’s a difficult decision, too, Liz. Health decided it for me, and my husband still waffles at 70. Doubt he’ll ever really retire, lol.
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I expect there will probably be some precipitating event in higher ed that prompts me to say, that’s enough; I’m done.
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Don’t let the decision lapse too long. Life on the other side is quite rewarding too.
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You make a good point, V.J. Time is no longer on my side.
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Enjoy! https://iwriteher.com/2020/06/22/the-invitation/
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Your imagination! In fine form.
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Thank you, VJ! 🙂
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My pleasure!
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Downsizing or upsizing?
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The house is slightly larger than ours but mostly comparable. We’ve already downsized. The community is 55+ and designed for couples.
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As much as we might want to, decisions have to be made. Thanks for joining in.
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As one of the major stressors in life (death of a loved one, divorce, moving, major illness or injury, job loss), it’s a tough decision. The question is, is it worth the stress. Good luck, V.J. I have a feeling your heart will guide the way.
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Thanks Olga. Our kids think we are crazy. Going to see it again today so that might help.
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You might fall in love with the possibilities of a new future. 🙂
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You are right!
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Lovely prompt and such an interesting tale you wrote here. Good luck on the decisions! When my husband and I bought our current home, I hadn’t even seen it until we were about to sign the contract. Then again, I wouldn’t be living there anyway, as I went to live in a care facility just aroudn the same time. It’s technically my house too, but I left most of the decision-making up to him. Similarly, he left most of the decision-making re selecting a care facility up to me.
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Funny where we get to in life – most of it so unexpected. Hope you are treated well where you are.
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An interesting prompt for this week VJ
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Thanks!
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