In anticipation of hubby’s return from hospital, I had it all planned: get him settled, run prescriptions to the pharmacy, pick up a pre-roasted chicken and salads, then home to nurse him to wellness.
Except, the chickens were sold out and the salads picked over, and the pharmacy backed up, and when I finally got home with frozen pizza, the dogs were past their supper time, and hubby was in pain, and in the fluster I read the directions for heating the pizza wrong.
I would have cried, except his distress was real, and one of us needed to be strong, and so I plugged on, reminding myself that tomorrow would be a better day.
We both slept, and I awoke with renewed spirit to be the best caregiver ever, except; I dropped the coffee cannister spilling the contents on the floor, so was forced to ward off dogs while scrambling to clean up the mess. Then I forgot to empty the old coffee carafe (I’m strictly a tea drinker) before pushing go on the brewing machine, so hot liquid flooded our counter. Third attempt I got lucky, but now he needed ice and I’d thrown the cubes (melt and all) back in the freezer last night and they were frozen solid – no give to hug his swollen leg.
And when the kids called to see how it was it going and ask if we needed help, my pride said “No, we’re fine”, except; we weren’t so I said “Please”, and the day got better from there.
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Does anything ever go the way we expect? Notice that expect and except have the same letters, with a slight twist. Look forward to seeing where this prompt takes you. As always: everyone is welcome, and all forms of creativity are encouraged. To participate, publish a post and link it back here, or simply leave your inspiration in the comments below.
Right on!
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Oh dear VJ I have come late to read this story of the toils and troubles. I am sure all is going well by now and you are the best caregiver ever 🙂
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Thanks. We are getting on. Ric has been my caregiver for many years; it is nice to return the favour.
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That’s great
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A little late getting to this. Hope things are going well.
https://aikalandros.com/2020/10/23/a-witch-among-the-willows/
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Not too late. I do the wrap ups on Sunday! Thanks.
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Love this. Great weaving together of the prompts.
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Days like you had are tough. One thing after another. Asking for help is so key and often so hard. The prompt seems especially on point for “these days.”
My contribution: https://oneletterup.com/2020/10/22/except-this-time/
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Thanks Andrea. Love your post.
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You’re welcome! So glad you enjoyed mine. 🙂
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My journey with the prompt word. Haven’t done much photography due to my chronic pain, except this time I forced myself to photograph the beauty of autumn before it ended. https://odaciuk.wordpress.com/2020/10/22/except-when/
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Bravo! well done!
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Good write, Paul.
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What a celebration of life!
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I’ve had days like this and remind myself there’s always tomorrow. Here’s my take – https://amanpan.blog/2020/10/20/roads-traveled/
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Good one, Eugi!
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This post is so well written that I completely forgot that you were having a bad day. I hope the day got better after your kids pitched in!
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Thanks so much! Having help here made all the difference.
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Hope things have fallen in place now and you are doing good. Stay strong and take care! Wishing your husband a speedy recovery…
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Thanks. We are finding our way. He has a long journey back to health but it will be worthwhile. We keep that as our focus.
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Wishing you a good today and a better tomorrow. I am glad you accepted help.
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Thanks Rupali, so am I!
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Sorry to hear of the struggles except it is heart-warming to know you can depend on your family when help is needed! I do hope everything is a bit smoother going forward, VJ! Here you go! https://iwriteher.com/2020/10/19/her-spirit/
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Thanks Susi.
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Well done with all the prompts. Moving piece.
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I’m so sorry things went all wrong, but so glad they turned out alright in the end. I’m hoping for a speedy recovery for your husband.
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Thanks Astrid.
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Exception to the rule, accepting help is certainly the best expectation. Take care.
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Well said. Thanks.
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Oh no! Definitely not what you expected, except it’s wonderful that the family saved the day. Glad to hear that it ended up being a happy ending. My mishaps tend to clump in a series of threes. When the first one happens, I get this odd feeling that more is coming.
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I think the very same thing. This morning I woke up with a spasm in my back that extended my whole left side. Let that be the third!
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Sorry to hear that. 😦 Hopefully things will get better soon.
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Isn’t that just the way???!!! When you need everything to go right, things keep going wrong. I’m glad you were able to get through those first few mishaps AND I’m glad you allowed your kids to help. I hope hubby is recovering well, and that you’re feeling as well as possible.
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Thanks Terri. We’re getting there.
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Inspiring!
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Some days are just crazy….Glad that you sought help. Tomorrow the sun will shine bright. Wishing you good times ahead. Take care ❤ !
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Thanks Radhika!
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I felt overwhelmed just reading this, can’t imagine living it! I too have this tendency to think I can manage it all. Glad you reached out, sometimes it does take a village…
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Thanks Heather. Crazy to think I’d have it all covered.
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Not so crazy, just human nature. You’re welcome.
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Yes, I have plenty of those I-can’t-win-for-losing days, but somehow a good night’s sleep always changes things. I hope Ric is healing well and not in too much pain.
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Thanks Liz. He is coping. I am coping. Another day passes, lol.
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You’re welcome, V.J. Sometimes, one day at a time is the best we can hope for.
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VJ, my first reaction was to offer sympathy, except you wouldn’t have welcomed it. Some days when we need everything to go right, go horribly wrong. Isn’t it a small mercy that there is a tomorrow!
Sending you hugs.
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A sense of humour helps too. Thanks.
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It sure does! You are welcome.
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