I’ve been hitting walls. Physically, psychologically, and now emotionally. Through it all, I’ve kept pushing myself to carry on, but it’s not working. It’s time for change. Time to listen to my body, and slow down. Time to listen to my psyche and be gentler with myself. Time to stop fighting my emotions and allow for a new flow.
I don’t plan on disappearing, but I am cutting back on screens. Giving myself a rest. Regrouping. Reassessing.
It will take me a while to find a routine that is sustainable. In the meantime, no more challenges from me (other than this huge one for myself).
Take care of yourselves, and I continue to look forward to your wonderful posts and encouraging feedback.
(Sketch is mine. An attempt to explore how I’ve been feeling.)
Hi VJ – I went looking for you as I checked in on WP. I totally get where you are coming from. Sometimes life piles too much on us to balance and carry. Health can be the tipping point, both physical and mental. I enjoy blogging but sometimes headspace gets so crowded with life crises of one kind or another, that creative space slips away. At least that’s what is happening with me. I wish you healing and hope to see you soon.
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Thanks for your understanding, Andrea.
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You’re most welcome.
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I think you are really wise to take some time off. It’s so good to change things up once in a while. Rest, and enjoy the weather as much as you can! -Julie
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Thanks Julie
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Beautiful sketch. Take care of yourself V.J. ❤
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Thank you Kate!
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The sketch is beautiful. 🌸
Please take care, hope you feel better ♥️
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Thanks so much. Love your tag line – “lightsleeperbutheavydreamer”. Describes me to a tee.
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I’m glad you connected with it! 🌸♥️
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Feel better!
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Thanks
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Always take care of YOU first, VJ! The rest will fall into place! A few of us are taking a hiatus. I am continuing my weekly challenge, however, I am taking a break from writing for others. Take care and don’t be a stranger. ❤️
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Thanks Eugi. I’ll still be here, just posting less. Need to find more time for self-care and less screens.
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I understand, VJ! I use Night Eye for all my screens except my own blogs, which have dark backgrounds. I can’t handle the bright white screens with a grey font. Plus, taking a break from social media altogether is a good thing.
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Enjoy the hiatus! I’m taking a break from my weekly challenge too.
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Trying to find some balance.
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Ebb and flow are normal in nature, but we often ignore the wisdom of those different states. I hope you will find the peace and quiet you need to recharge your empty batteries.
Best wishes,
Tanja
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Thanks Tanja. Good way to put it.
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Sounds like a good plan. I hope you and Ric can enjoy some peaceful, sunny times ahead despite pandemic stresses. Stay safe and be well😎
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Thanks Sarah. Ric is headed to more surgery – we find out more mid month. I’m trying to find some balance before all that happens.
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I hope you find that balance and that everything goes well for both of you. Sending hugs…
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Thanks so much. One day at a time.
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We all need to rest sometimes. Take as much time as you need, and we’ll see each other again soon!
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Thanks Stuart.
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Bumping into trees with no clear path out of the forest. You need time to nurture yourself, take life slower.
I love this site, and I will miss you. I’m sure you’ll pop up now and then, and I look forward to seeing you.
Good wishes!💜
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Thanks so much. I am going to try and post six out of seven days, just not as often as before.
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Do what you have to, VJ. We’ll be here when you get back. ((hugs)) ❤
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Thanks Susi! I know you understand
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❤
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Take the time needed to heal and rejuvenate yourself. 😀 😀
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Thanks Cee.
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But I just found you… 😦 Take care. I’ll find other challenges.
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Sorry Erica. There are so many good challenges out there. Check out Cee’s Photography blog. She lists all the challenges: https://ceenphotography.com/
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Thank you
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VJ bless you! I’ve marveled at your ability to create so abundantly!! You absolutely merit a break!! ❤️
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Thanks Jazz. Appreciate your kindness.
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Take the time for yourself, we often omit hearing what we need for us. Take care, will be looking forward to your occasional fly by. 😊🙏🏼💙🌻🦆🦅🦉
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Thanks so much!
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You’re welcome, just feel better! 🙂
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Sounds like a wise plan. Even though I don’t always participate in your challenges, they are always food for thought for me. Best of luck on your new challenge. “Gently” often gets us there more deftly than pushing forward.
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Thanks Maggie. You think I’d have learned by my age, but still a work in progress.
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All of us are, to the end. 😉
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You are a wise woman to take the time to care for yourself. I’m glad to hear you will still be posting.
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Thanks Heather.
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🙂
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I’ve been in the same boat although not as much physically, do whatever works and I wish you all the best.
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Thanks Mike. I appreciate it. Noticed I couldn’t squeeze a witty remark out for you – and that’s bad.
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I was just talking to a goat about insanity and he suggested I talk to the pig. 😵
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Had a deer come to backyard yesterday, and I asked her, but she just turned tail and ran.
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Love that sketch V.J. I am sure the rest will be rejuvenating ! Looking forward to seeing you back soon.Please take care of yourself.<3 !
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Thank you.
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You are walking a wise path my friend! Glad to hear you are loving yourself! 🙂 ❤
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Thank you!
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Take care of you VJ. I will miss your paintings/sketches and challenges until then.
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Thank you, Shilipa. I will still be posting. Just not as much.
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VJ, take care of you first. Best wishes, Keith
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Thanks Keith.
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Take good care, VJ. I hope that cutting back on screens will be just the respite that you need to regain your equilibrium. I’ll be thinking about you.
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Thanks Liz. I’ll still be here, just not as much.
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You’re welcome, VJ. I’m seeing other bloggers cutting back as well.
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VJ take all the time you need and get your body and mind back to where you need it to be!
Take care🤱💖
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Thanks Aletta.
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