Last Friday, a friend picked me up to go birding, and I thrilled at the sight of the Pied-billed grebe on our river.
Saturday, we glowed in the aftermath of a successful fundraiser, supporting the displaced Ukrainians we offered to host – still having no idea who they would they were.
Sunday morning we awoke to an email: Call me as soon as you get this. We were getting ready to attend an information session about housing.
The phone called revealed that Ric’s 45 year-old son was found dead in a distant town. No other details. Shocked and not quite sure how to process the information, we drove to the meeting.
Monday, we were connected with the family that will be joining us.
Tuesday, the coroner reported a heart attack.
It’s been a roller-coaster week. So much can happen in a day.
Oh, VJ! Condolences to you both. Life sure kicks us around unexpectedly. ((hugs))
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It does! Thanks Susi.
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45 is too young ! And condolences for the loss
Also – best wishes with the outreach with helping the family 💕🙏
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Thanks Yvette. It is too young. Our lives are certainly a rollercoaster right now.
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🙏💕
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I’m so sorry to hear about the demise of Ric’s son. My condolences, VJ.
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Thanks Eugi!
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You’re welcome, VJ.
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My condolences to you and Ric. May you find comfort in your family and with friends.
Blessings to you both,
Sarah
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Thanks Sarah.
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I’m so sorry for your loss, VJ. This post says so much – about enjoying things, helping others and facing devastating loss – and then trying to continue. May the others that you are helping in turn help you and Ric to heal. Sending my best.
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Thanks Wynne. My father used to say: The good Lord works in mysterious days. Dad’s been gone for decades, but his words keep coming to me at this time.
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Amen!!
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I’m so sorry for your loss VJ. It’s so hard to lose those we love, but especially a child. Praying for you and Ric, and sending love and hugs your way.
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Thanks Terri.
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Oh my!
So sad to hear about Ric’s son. My condolences.
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Thanks Hammad.
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All my love and prayers go out to you and your family my friend. Sweet Blessings, Deborah. 🙂 ❤ The photo is gorgeous!
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Thanks Deborah.
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VJ, please share with Ric my angst at what he’s facing. Not even a chance to say goodbye. My son was also 45 when glioblastoma snatched him – perhaps the heart attack was less stressful, but I ache for Ric’s loss of goodbye.
That’s a beautiful grebe – perhaps a symbol to keep swimming in the water you find yourself in? You have a LOT swirling around right now.
Hugs to you and Ric
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Thanks Jazz. I know that you understand. Life is precious and then it’s gone. No rhyme or rhythm.
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What a shock, and probably so confusing in that moment, and then the grief, my goodness, how do you process that?! Hugs.
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Still trying to process it. Thanks Paul
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I’m so sorry. Our children should never die before we do. (K)
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Right?! Thank you.
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It’s such a big loss. My sympathies.
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Indescribable. Thank you, Sadje.
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Take care VJ
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VJ, what a tough phone call to get, especially about someone so young. Keith
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Thanks Keith.
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I’m so sorry to hear of the death of Ric’s son, VJ. Please accept my condolences.
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Thanks Liz.
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You’re welcome, VJ.
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