Rumination is one of my fortes. I get something stuck in my head and it will spin there nonstop if I let it, even disrupting sleep.
It happened recently with one of our daughters. I took something she did personally, and blew it out of proportion, convincing myself that there was no hope for our relationship. (Did I also mention that my rumination tends towards the dramatic.)
It went on for days and nights until maturity grabbed me by the collar and insisted I do something about it. Rather than open the wound further by confronting her, I decided to take action instead. I sent her a text offering to babysit the kids while she and her husband went out for dinner.
A peace offering for my soul.
The thing about ruts is that they remain until we are willing to take the necessary action to lift ourselves out of them.
This week, marking a new year, think about where action is needed in your life, or in the world in general. The word itself does not need to appear in your post, but the movement should be obvious.
To participate, create a post and then pingback here, or leave a link in the comments. All are welcome.
Look forward to your responses.
Oh those sleepless nights of the mind on our hamster wheel…
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Exactly!
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A bit inspired VJ
http://bushboy.blog/2020/01/12/action/
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Very inspired.
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Love the image and poetry, Brian.
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Nice one.
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Yes! Thanks for participating.
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So many lessons from your story. Ruts, as you describe, are so tough.
http://oneletterup.com/2020/01/11/on-your-mark
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Thanks. I think you supplied my answer – be as a child again.
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You’re welcome. I think it is a worthy goal. 🙂
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Agreed.
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Such joy!
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Nice to have photographic interpretations.
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Well said.
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I’ve really felt uninspired in 2020. I’m not able to get out to take new photographs due to the weather and pain in walking, so I created my own images using a candle and a mirror. https://odaciuk.wordpress.com/2020/01/10/unlikely-portal/
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This is awesome. I must do the same .
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Mirrors can be interesting subjects. 🙂
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Will have to draw on my creativity.
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🙂
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Love the creativity!
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Beautiful.
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Well written, Paul.
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https://reinventionsreena.wordpress.com/2020/01/07/action/
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Now you have me thinking.
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I can relate to this one!
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It seems to be the human condition.
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Yes. For sure.
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I feel many have been there, V.J. Sometimes, we don’t realize and then we have to take action to correct our actions! Here is my take – https://amanpan.com/2020/01/06/open-minds-gather-no-dust/
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Thanks Eugenia.
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Lovely post, Eugenia.
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https://musingsofanoldfart.wordpress.com/2019/12/31/a-path-forward/
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I love this post Keith. Glad you decided to kick this challenge off with these wise words.
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Thanks VJ. I appreciate the invitation.
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So welcome, Keith.
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“Maturity grabbed me by the collar”…I’ve been there. It’s annoying how the brain tends to get stuck on a certain thought and revisits non-stop, looking for any opportunity to worm its way into reality. I find grounding works for me, most of the time. 🙂
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Grounding is good, Olga. I forget sometimes.
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