“Maybe there is a purpose to this struggle,” I say, offhanded, to a visiting friend.
We have just made our way to the edge of the falls, the trek difficult for me today, as my legs are not cooperating. I’m hanging onto her arm for balance.
I’d been telling her about another visit I’d had, the day before. An old friend drove up in a red sports car, her perfectly tanned complexion complimented by white blonde hair, her clothes the latest fashion. She’d been in the area to pick up something for the house – a must have for her decor.
“She’s a kind-hearted soul, would do anything for you, but just can’t find happiness,” I explained.
“I’ve seen your work on-line,” the woman had gushed. “I wish I could find a passion like that.”
I was dumbfounded in the moment by her remark, the obvious differences between her healthy, “able” life, and my chronic battle. But here at the riverside, my arm linked with another, I had a sudden revelation. I do still have something to offer.
Recovery, isn’t about the cure; it’s about the shift in perspective – the ability to find purpose in the midst of struggle, and the willingness to ride out the challenge. It has a lot to do with attitude.
“…and I’ve always had plenty of attitude”, we both laugh, as I pause to snap a few photos.
I don’t have the physical ability to rock the world, nor the energy to make a difference in the ways I used to, but I still have a medium.
Happy to say, I am recovering.
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Our focus this week, after a short hiatus, has been “recovery”. It is nice to be back amongst the creative and inspiring community that takes part in my humble challenges.
Proscenium who always makes me laugh
Sealing Wax Notes who, no matter what her incarnation, spurs me on with her humour, intellect, and formidable faith
one letter UP whose stories are like lost treasures found
Stuff and what if… a kindred soul whose words and images always touch me deeply
AWISEWOMANSJOURNEY whose kindness and faith I treasure
Sgeoil whose creativity inspires me to reach higher.
There are others who are absent from this list but whose presence in my blog life are special to me.
I’ll be back again tomorrow with a new challenge. Hope you’ll join me.
One Woman's Quest II 
Yes, a shift of perspective is necessary at different stages of one’s life and a revelation is always welcomed. Having a creative voice is a wonderful feeling. Thank-you for your lovely commentary next to my blog link. ❤
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You are so welcome, Olga. I always look forward to your posts.
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Oh, VJ! This is a keeper: “Recovery, isn’t about the cure; it’s about the shift in perspective – the ability to find purpose in the midst of struggle, and the willingness to ride out the challenge. It has a lot to do with attitude.”
Thank you. I am taking your words and applying to my emotional response to senseless killings (again!) in Texas … I need to shift my perspective to understand what the message/directive for me is – what can I do?
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It is such tragedy surrounding you. Hard to watch and think about. Surely society is ready for change. I’m glad this resonated with you.
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What an interesting place – I’m sure Nature has no qualms about recovering her place.
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Thanks V.J. for the insight and the encouragement. I love that you have always had “attitude”!
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Thank you Sarah. Always nice to hear from you, and yes, I’ve been called more names than I care to mention for that attitude.
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This fabulous post was just the message I needed–if I didn’t believe there was intentional and good purpose in my struggle, the despair would finally imprison and do me in. In my opinion it’s incumbent upon us, if we are even slightly able, to look for a spot where we can shine. The shift in perspective you mention is crucial, so beneficial. Thanks for including me in the round up…I’m glad I can usually be an encouragement, even in my wry humor 🙂
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So glad you found inspiration in this post. Your unique spirit always moves me, either to laughter, insight, and sometimes tears! Bless you for being you.
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Oh my, isn’t that the best blessing ever–thank you muchly, VJ ❤
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Enjoyed every word and VJ – you sure do have lots to give and the truth is that we might not have every gotten this side of you had you not had to endure your chronic illness
And I am sorry for it –
I have had to battle symptoms of Lyme (2014) caught it early but hen had a seafood parasite and my gut was burdened – anyhow – I do know how life gets sidelined and I know a thing or two about overcoming – and cheers to those of us who “still have more to give”
Ahhhh
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Bless you for your kind words. We all still have something to offer – I hope that came through.
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It sure did come through!
And the funny thing is – we likely ya e more to offer!
Life interrupted and being sidelined changes things!
Once in a while I have a setback for a day or two – but because I caught stuff early – and then a few other factors – I am almost 100% – but long road
Anyhow – I imagine the lady that pulled up – and well-
Sometimes life just gets to
Much richer when we have angst – our definition of success sure changes!
And I felt that contented vibe here
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Oh good. Thanks! You are lucky to have caught things early.
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Whew – I see that more all the time –
And wishing you a good night VJ
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You too! sleep well.
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