“I bought a turkey roll and frozen stuffing,” Ric announced after a recent grocery shop.
I might have raised an eyebrow.
“Thought we could have it on Christmas day.”
“We’re going to visit Mom on Christmas day,” I reminded him. “At the nursing home.”
As a blended family, Ric and I surrendered Christmas day a long time ago. As long as Ric’s Mom was alive, we’d pick her up and spend the day at a casino, usually ending up with a tuna sandwich in the restaurant. After she passed, Ric and I went alone. Then we started going south, avoiding the day altogether. But when Ric gets something in his head….
So turkey went into the oven as we headed out the door for the forty-minute drive.
What are you doing for dinner? A text from my younger sister.
Ric’s cooking here if you want to come.
They never come. My family of origin doesn’t do holidays anymore. It’s just the way it is.
We’d love to come if it’s not too much work.
We visited Mom, and our eldest daughter showed up with two of our granddaughters. We exchanged gifts and ate goodies, and then moved on to visit my older sister – also in the nursing home. More gifts passed hands.
I texted D as we headed home. Fog had set in. She was worried about it.
Back at home, Ric busied himself with prepping the rest of the meal, and I rested. At five, the doorbell rang. There was my younger sister and her husband bearing gifts.
I can’t remember a Christmas dinner tasting so good. Maybe it was the conversation, or just the sheer joy of sharing it with family.
It’s never too late, I realize, to start new traditions.
Tonight my heart is filled with gratitude, and I am hopeful.
(Thursdays are currently dedicated to gratitude. Image from personal collection.)