“Tell me a favourite memory from your travels,” my golden-haired nurse asked me as she scoured my bruised arms for an accessible vein. I’d blown another IV and options were limited.
Rachel Sunshine I called her, this wisp of a young woman who, at first hospital-glazed glance, glowed a with a yellow aura. So I told her about Arizona, and the Salt River where the wild horses roamed. She listened with awe, her expert hands painlessly setting up a new life line.
“Promise me, you’ll sleep tonight,” she scolded me, “and tomorrow I’ll braid your hair if you like.” And then: “But only if you tell me a story.” She wrote it on my care board so we’d both remember: story and braid
We’d bonded that first moment, when chastising herself for being a dummy. I blurted out: “Thank goodness you’re a dummy, then that makes two of us”.
I arrived in hospital the day before, delivered in what we oldies affectionately call “the bus”, with sirens ablaze. Steady hands worked diligently, plugging in machines, inserting needles, asking well rehearsed questions. There were tests and a lot of uncomfortable jostling and then admittance to this room around midnight. It hadn’t been quite forty-eight hours post surgery when everything had taken a turn for the worse.
The disgruntled ER doc mumbled something about why anyone would have sent me home post-surgery in my condition, and then kindly advised that my problems were caused by an obstruction in the intestine:
“Nothing can come in, and nothing can go out,” she explained. “No more food or drink orally until we know the cause.”
We never did get the story or the braid, Ms Sunshine and I, as overnight my body started to respond to interventions. By 7:00 am, I was sitting up, eating jello when Sunshine reappeared.
“I’m in IV prison,” I told her, raising my arm to indicate a stiffly wrapped hand.
“I heard,” she frowned. “I also heard you didn’t sleep. But there is progress and that’s good.”
The thing about Rachel is that she doesn’t just practice her craft from a textbook; she takes in all the cues being fed her, and listens. She is, in fact, no dummy.
When I again showed her my swelling arm (another line blown), she sighed and suggested we give the IV a break for a bit. And when she saw that rest would be the greatest healer of all right now, she pushed the doctor to reconsider my stay.
By 2:00 pm I was released; Sunshine at my back wishing me a speedy recovery.
So, I am back at home, having slept most of yesterday and last night. I am weak. I am battered. And I am a little bit better thanks to a nurse I’ve christened Rachel Sunshine.
It was warming and in some cases, cathartic, to wake today to your responses and posts. Paul, at parallax, challenged me to write about the caregiver who helped me through. Love you all, and missed our daily check-ins. So glad to be back.
Please check this week’s offerings if you haven’t had a chance. Thanks to all:
How Do I Heal, Blog of Hammad Rais
Homesick, I Write Her
Significance, Short-Lived, Eugi’s Causerie II
Take Care of the Old, Heart to Heart
Journey to Peace, Stuff and what is…
Take Care, parallax
How Some Take Care, Sgeoil
It will take me a bit to regain my footing, so there will be no challenge tomorrow, other than for all of us to take care this week.
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Get well soon! And everything you write is just exceptional and clever and humorous and touching and deep.
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You always make me smile, Benjamin. Bless you
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Welcome! All the best!
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Glad to hear you are home and healing. Sounds like you need to rest more. Take care of yourself!
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Thanks.
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Glad you had Rachel Sunshine to take care of you at the hospital V.J. Happy that you are back and recuperating well. Wishing you speedy recovery. Take Care ā¤ !
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Thanks Radhika. So good to be back.
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Thank goodness for Rachel Sunshine, and others like her. I hope you will be able to sleep and recuperate, V.J.
Best wishes,
Tanja
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Thanks Tanja. Had the best sleep last night. Amazing how that uplifts.
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I’m glad to hear it, V.J. I hope things will keep moving in the right direction. šø
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This is a beautifully written reflection. I’m so glad to hear that you’re back home and feeling better. Sending healing thoughts your way.
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Thanks Liz. I appreciate your warm words.
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You’re most welcome, V.J.
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So glad you are starting to feel better. Having a Rachel Sunshine can make all the difference.
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Sure can. Thank you.
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Wow! Unbelievable experience. I was reading this on the edge of my seat, hoping for some good news. Relieved to hear that things are okay for now and you are safely back home. Rachel Sunshine is such an angel. Sending you a prayer for a full recovery.
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Thanks Olga. I’m ready for an uptick.
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Sending you good wishes, VJ.
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Appreciate it!
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Glad you are back home VJ, take care
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Thank you!
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How fortunate to have a Rachel Sunshine! I do hope you continue to feel better and better, VJ! You concentrate on you now, we’ll be here when you get back. š ((hugs))
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Thanks Susi!
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You’re welcome!
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You are an inspiration!
And VJ – your writing is so honed that at first I thought I was reading someone’s carefully crafted fiction short story – I had to stop and look up to see the reader again
And I was like – ok- yes it is VJ and then read on…
And sorry about your recent setback!
Prayers and well wishes your way!
And cheers to Rachel Sunshine – you honored her well with this post!
Peace and grace to you – especially as you recover
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Thanks so much. Life is full of riches even in the midst of storms.
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What a scary experience, VJ! I’m so glad you are on the mend. You and yours get plenty of rest. You have a lifetime to get your new home together.
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Thanks Eugi. House is definitely on the back burner.
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Oh my, what a harrowing experience – made bearable by your angel of a nurse. Someone like Rachel can make all the difference in making you feel cared for when the going gets really tough. I am glad you are home and healing. No more trips on the “bus”!!
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Thanks Andrea. Health care workers are angels in the flesh.
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They absolutely are!
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I’m really glad you’re back and on the mend my friend! Blessings of healing love to you! š ā¤
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Thanks Deborah!
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Glad to read you’re back home. Rest is a good healer, I think. Best to you.
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Thanks so much.
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