When illness struck our household it knocked over our bucket list, spilling much of the content into the drain. We were like bystanders at a train wreck: watching our lives spiral out of control, desperately trying to sift through the rubble to find signs of survival.
Depression, anger, and grief were just some of the emotions that followed, as we fought to maintain personal sanity along with the integrity of our marriage.
What emerged can only be labelled as resilience: sense of humour intact, love abiding, and an undaunted willingness to dream,. We adjusted the proverbial sails and set a new course – made a plan to get healthy, reduce waste, and find another way to refurbish our travel dreams.
Two years, we decided, was a reasonable goal. He’d wind down his business, we’d both focus on getting better, and we’d look for a bedroom on wheels.
We committed the plan to paper two weeks ago. That weekend we found the perfect motor home. All going well – he needs to pass a medical, and we have to shuffle funds around – we take possession in two weeks. Then look out world:
Wide turns ahead!
Sometimes life just needs a plan.
Resilience, What a fantastic word. Also fantastic post may I add. Hold your head up high, I wish you both the best of luck.
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Thanks so much for your kind words. I checked out your blog and will be following. Writing is such a wonderful way to process the “stuff” in our lives. Sounds like you have discovered resilience in your own life.
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Indeed, I have had my fair share of pain and have always been determined to survive ! Thank you for checking out my blog. I am looking forward to reading more of your posts.
Love & Peace
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